Joie Wehr - Brain Injury Survivor
Can you share about the brain injury event itself?
In late 2009 or early 2010, I was in California for hot weather training before deploying to Afghanistan. A wild dust storm kicked up and took out the entire dining tent I was inside. One of the poles holding the canvas struck me in the head as I was trying to escape.
I was more upset that I wouldn’t be able to attend day two of the training session I had just completed earlier that day—I didn’t even realize I’d gotten a concussion amidst all the excitement.
How did you feel during the first days, weeks, or months after the injury?
I felt okay initially, aside from a headache and some bruising. It wasn’t until years later that I realized what had happened—and that I’d had a TBI.
What kind of rehabilitation therapies or treatment have been most helpful through the process of recovery?
I’ve been through speech therapy with the VA, but I’ve found that talking with other survivors has been the most beneficial.
What have been some of the biggest challenges you or your loved one has faced during recovery?
Short-term memory issues, repeating myself or stories from my life, and difficulty with concentration and confusion.
If there have been setbacks or repeated injuries, describe that journey:
Unsure.
How has your life changed since the brain injury?
I now need to take more time to fully comprehend what I’m hearing or reading. I write notes to myself to remember daily plans or goals I hope to accomplish.
What role has support from family, friends, or community played in your journey?
My support system has doubled in value since finding Hope Survives. I now have immediate access to support and knowledge—without needing to schedule appointments or wait for provider availability.
Have there been any moments of breakthrough or unexpected positives along the way?
Finding the Hope Survives podcast!
What has surprised you about this journey with brain injury?
My ability to keep learning and striving to improve my life. I was in a slump for a while, coming to terms with how my life has changed since joining the Army.
What do you know now that you wish you knew at the beginning of this journey?
That injury isn’t the end of life or enjoyment—my story isn’t over yet.
What does "hope" mean to you?
To me, “hope” means there is energy, intention, or higher forces at work—guiding, supporting, and loving. It means not being or feeling alone, and that things will get better with a little determination and supportive people.
If you could share one encouraging message with another survivor or family, what would it be?
Stay as positive as you possibly can, and surround yourself with good people.
